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Love has many languages. For Dr. Tunji Olowolafe, love speaks through legacy. In honour of his late wife, Gbemisola Olutayo Olowolafe, he has planted two seeds in Are-Ekiti, namely an ICT centre and a model secondary school that promise to outlive grief and outshine death.
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Final goodbye: A father’s love in face of death - ITREALMS
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In 1972, in the quiet town of Ajalli, near Awka in present-day Anambra State, a father made a choice that would forever be remembered—not for its defiance, but for its love.
Stanley Enekwe, a young man and former Biafran soldier, had been convicted of armed robbery and sentenced to death by firing squad. His people swore he was innocent, but their voices were drowned out by the harsh realities of the time. There would be no mercy.
In 1972, in the quiet town of Ajalli, near Awka in present-day Anambra State, a father made a choice that would forever be remembered—not for its defiance, but for its love.
Stanley Enekwe, a young man and former Biafran soldier, had been convicted of armed robbery and sentenced to death by firing squad. His people swore he was innocent, but their voices were drowned out by the harsh realities of the time. There would be no mercy.
Wednesday, February 05, 2025
Konga celebrates love with unbeatable valentine’s discounts - ITREALMS
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As the season of love approaches, Konga Group, Nigeria’s leading composite e-commerce platform, is spreading joy and affordability to its customers with an array of exciting discounts and offers. From Wednesday, February 5th, to Sunday, February 16th, 2025, Konga is ensuring that lovers celebrate Valentine’s Day without straining their pockets. This special campaign is designed to help shoppers share love while saving money, making it easier than ever to create unforgettable moments with loved ones. Konga has always been committed to providing value to its customers, and this Valentine’s season is no exception. With discounts across a wide range of categories, including electronics, mobile phones, computers, fashion, beauty products, home and kitchen essentials, and even building and construction materials, there’s something for everyone. Whether you’re shopping for a romantic gift, upgrading your gadgets, or sprucing up your home, Konga’s extensive selection of premium brands ensures you get the best quality at unbeatable prices.
As the season of love approaches, Konga Group, Nigeria’s leading composite e-commerce platform, is spreading joy and affordability to its customers with an array of exciting discounts and offers. From Wednesday, February 5th, to Sunday, February 16th, 2025, Konga is ensuring that lovers celebrate Valentine’s Day without straining their pockets. This special campaign is designed to help shoppers share love while saving money, making it easier than ever to create unforgettable moments with loved ones. Konga has always been committed to providing value to its customers, and this Valentine’s season is no exception. With discounts across a wide range of categories, including electronics, mobile phones, computers, fashion, beauty products, home and kitchen essentials, and even building and construction materials, there’s something for everyone. Whether you’re shopping for a romantic gift, upgrading your gadgets, or sprucing up your home, Konga’s extensive selection of premium brands ensures you get the best quality at unbeatable prices.
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Saturday, February 04, 2023
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Konga, Nigeria’s leading composite e-commerce giant, has kicked off the Valentine season early for shoppers on its platform with massive discounts and exciting deals across a wide range of gift items and other product assortments, while also offering a chance for customers to win a free Valentine movie date for two.
Konga, Nigeria’s leading composite e-commerce giant, has kicked off the Valentine season early for shoppers on its platform with massive discounts and exciting deals across a wide range of gift items and other product assortments, while also offering a chance for customers to win a free Valentine movie date for two.
Sunday, May 06, 2018
God is love says Fr Dzungwe
Love is not a strange word in our society today. It is in
fact a force that controls the world. It is the most used word and the most
abused as well. To love therefore means different things to different people.
In almost all its usage, it does convey a shallow meaning. Thus when a young guy tells a lady “I love you” it
immediately trigger a different thing in the mind of the lady and vice versa.
Love is easily misconstrued in our time. The readings of today as we celebrate
this sixth Sunday of Easter draws our mind to Love and sets before us the ideal
lover of all ages-Jesus.
What then becomes love and what does it take to love? The
readings of the day offers us some tips. Beginning with the gospel of the day,
Jesus says “ As the Father has loved me, so I have loved you, abide in my
love”(Jn 15:9). What then is this love of Jesus that we must abide in it? It is
selfless love and undeserving. Though Jesus was worthy of the love of the
Father in all ramifications because he abided in the Father, we on our part
cannot say we deserve that same love from the Son; for we continue to sin
against him. Even at that he keeps loving us.
Therefore, we must learn here that love is not given to
those who deserve it but those who do not in our judgments deserve to be loved.
God loves us not because we are holy, but even in our sinfulness he still loves
us, expecting our conversion that we may be saved. Hence, to convert a sinner
is not to stand aloof and condemn him or her but is to go close to the person
show some love and through that conversion will be easily achieved. Let us
learn to love unconditionally.
Secondly, love demands sacrifice. Jesus says “...Greater
love has no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friend” (John
15:13). This is the highest form of love humanity has ever experienced. St.
Paul will say “It is difficult to die for a good man not to talk of a bad man”
(Romans 5:7), yet Jesus sacrificed his life for unworthy sinners like us. Thus,
sacrifice becomes very important when we talk of love.
If we love we must learn to sacrifice selfishness for
generosity, greed for contempt, hatred for love, gossip for admonishment, lies
for truth, immaturity for maturity, materialism for fulfillment, individualism
for communal life, bad governance for purposeful driven leadership, insecurity
for security, laziness for hard work, indecency to decency, poor parenting for
diligent parenting and lots more. Individually we must identify that which we
must sacrifice for the sake of Christ. So I ask, what is my love for Christ
costing me?
As such, our love must exceed lips service and find
expression in action. To love then will be to offer prayers for a brother and
sister in need of it, to give comforting words to those in need of it, to visit
the sick, clothe the naked, make the homeless sheltered, heal those broken by
poverty and their likes.
My brothers and sisters, this love also demands total
obedience. It is the proof that we love God. Hence Jesus’ words “You are my
friends if you do what I command you” (15:14). The question could be, are we
really doing the things he has commanded us to do? Are we faithfully obeying
him in the various capacities that he has called us to serve him? What has
become of the world were sin reigns more than righteousness yet our streets are
quiet because all have gone to church? We have to learn to love God in
obedience. Obeying the laws of the land, obeying our elders, respecting human
life, holding high the dignity of the human person and obeying values that
makes life worth living makes us a loving people.
When we do this it shows we know God. Hence a good
knowledge of God helps us to be called his friends. For it is only friends that
knows the secrets of each other. As such, Jesus has revealed himself to those
who loved him; who will love him, those that are loving him now and are ever
ready to do his will; to these he will continue to reveal himself. Hence,
anybody that “Loves is born of God and knows God. He who does not love does not
know God; for God is love “(1 Jn 4:7-8). I therefore need to question my
knowledge of God if I cannot love a brother or sister.
For this knowledge of God distinguishes us from the world
and that explains why the world will hate lovers of Christ. Thus, if the world
is so comfortable with us, if people are more comfortable clubbing than coming
to church, if people are interested more in social activities than seminars or
retreat that are organised to enhance our relationship with God, then, we
should know that we are loving the world more than the creator of the world.
Thus our love of Christ should clearly distinguish us in the world.
We pray for the grace to love the same way God loves us
so that we shall do what is expected of us as his children through Christ our
Lord Amen. May the souls of our brothers Frs Joseph Gor and Felix Tyolaha with
their companions who loved Christ to the end, rest in peace amen. HAPPY SUNDAY.
*Courtesy:
Rev. Fr Simon Peter Dzungwe, who contributed from Ibadan, being a homily for
the Sixth Sunday of Easter, Year B. (Acts 10:25-26,34-35,44-48; 1 John 4:7-10;
John 15:9-17).
Friday, November 24, 2017
Michael Ishiguzo: Tale of love, ability in disability
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Michael Ishiguzo, aka Mi3 is a Nigerian amputee playing for Arsenal football team and in the England Amputee Football Association (EAFA) national league. In this chat with ITRealms Online, Michael shared his love, determination and travails in demonstration and affirmation that there is truly ability in disability.Excerpts:
A footballer is born:
I am Michael
Ishiguzo, aka Mi3. I give all glory, honour, adoration, exaltation and praise
to Almighty God, my hope and my strength. In all humility I return all praises
to his holy name for all that was, is and yet to be.
I am the
only son of my parents Mr Kelvin Ishiguzo and Mrs Catherine Ishiguzo from Imo
state, Nigeria. I lost my mother in December 31st 1989 and my father died
February 1991.
Football is
my life, it is the one thing that I think of in any situation, under any condition
or circumstance, I eat, sleep, dream, think, imagine, discuss and play football
and had great aspirations because all that I am is embedded in the beautiful
game, football.
I have never
thought of a day or a time that something else would engulf my entire being
like football, because the joy of having the leather grace my feet is the most
joyful and wonderful experience I can ever think of.
Little beginnings …:
From the
days of little beginnings when before school hours early in the morning in
Saint Finbarrs College in Akoka-Bariga, Lagos, playing with the school team
before classes resumed every day and after school hours, myself and friends
will play our hearts out and completely forget about time at a nearby field at
home.
Oh! Such
memories of how we tried out skills, tricks, passes and penalties into night
fall, before heading home. I played in almost all the youth categories we had
back then in Nigeria, the Under 10s, U13 and U15s before my amateur club in the
LAFA league (Lagos State Football Association League).
My amateur
career was awesome, especially, playing for Nigerian National Shipping Line
(NNSL FC) tailoring my career into professionalism, I finally got a shot at professional
football and I signed for Eagles Cement of Port Harcourt in 1996 where I played
with some talented and amazing footballers, it is an honour to adorn the teams
Green and White colors to represent in my best effort and that was crowned when
Stationery Stores came for my services in 1997.
Exploits @Stationery Stores:
My movement
to Stationery Stores, the equivalent to Arsenal FC London in terms of
followership and fan base, brought more fame and recognition although the money
was almost nothing, but I had media attention and mad love from the fans.
I also got a
nickname out of my display of skill and play. The name "Cause Trouble"
came to be the nickname. It’s not because I am too problematic to manage by the
coach or referees, but I was giving my opponents too much to keep up with via
my skills and pace, with the caliber of individuals that made up the team I
would say; we were untouchable in the league, hence the attention grew further
and I was eyeing a bigger dream because I believed in myself to reach the
biggest height of my career as a footballer.
The club
gave us all a short break and we all went to our various homes, I decided to go
to Shell football ground at Adeniran Ogunsanya Lagos, which was my training
ground before I made it into professional league to train with some of my
friends and old teammates.
A volley from blind side:
It was
during this training session, I can still remember, a cross came in from the
right wing and I was dashing in from the outside left wing, it was a perfect trademark
goal setting for me on a volley normally, as I was about to volley the ball I
did not see the opposing defender lunging in with a high foot from my blind
side, thus, it was too late to hold back. So, I followed through with the
volley and clattered with his high foot.
Then it
happened it was a volley I thought I was in the clear to take not knowing the
defender was going to lunge in and that high too, so the collision was made and
a loud sound of legs against each other was heard and realised I could not move
my leg and I knew I had picked an injury almost immediately but did not know
how serious it was, when I realised that my leg has broken completely into two,
immediately I could see my whole life and dreams go up into the smoke.
Between Igbobi and trado-pedic:
Suggestions
were made whether I should go to Igbobi, the National Orthopedic Hospital, but
was countered by another saying Igbobi takes longer; and at that time it was
almost unaffordable considering the facts that yes, we were playing in the
professional league, but the money was barely enough to feed and pay house
rents and look after oneself, we were playing for the joy and fame and hoping
that we could finally make it by going abroad to showcase our talents, and that
there is a trado-pedic who fixes such cases faster and more affordable too.
I was taken
to the place and was told that the man in charge had retired back to his home
town but his son said he is as good as his father because his father
practically taught him the trade and so I became his ‘guinea pig’ offering him
my leg to reinstate. He made worse the situation, so I had no other choice but
to return to Igbobi, which was meant to be the first point of call, but alas I
was told after checking the injury that it has been inflamed and developed Gangrene
and is moving from its actual position upwards which translates that the
affected leg needs to be amputated or I will lose my life.
I could not
come to terms with the fact that my leg will be taken off, I mean amputated. I
watch as my dream slipped off me and I can't comprehend the fact that it's
reality staring me in the face.
My friends,
Jerry Onuachu, Felix Akiojano among other footballers could not contain the sad
story, I kept asking questions and I got no answers, why me? Why now? Where did
I go wrong? Who did I offend amongst other thoughts, and with no other reason
to stall the situation my leg was amputated on April 14th 1997.
A hard pill of April 14:
I had to
come to terms with the fact that I cannot play professional football again but
it was a hard pill to swallow, i got mad, angry, grumpy and depressed
especially when my friends will come and check on me in the mornings before
training sessions and evenings after training sessions. I felt left out in the
cold and dejected because my whole life has been taken away from me, I did not
want to see anyone because that will bring back memories which will translate
to tears.
In all
sincerity I was done and I convinced myself there was nothing more left for me
to live for.
As I was
recovering at home I started to put on weight; too much weight that I summoned
the courage to go to the gym at the National Stadium, Surulere, to have a feel
of the environment and to find a way to keep my weight down, but which honestly,
only brought memories and uncontrollable tears to my eyes.
I was in the
gym when another amputee walked up to me in the person of Patrick Anieto, the
national champion in amputee javelin and discus throws. He encouraged me to
hold on to my dream of being a sportsman that if I cannot do my preferred
sport, that I can at least make up elsewhere, that he knows amputees are being
looked down on in our country but I can be different because he choose to be
different too.
It was a
hard decision to make, I always see the disabled athletes in the national
stadium whenever I come to do my personal training and it was always a sorry
sight. I used to feel sorry for them; they train with and in the worst circumstances
any athlete could train in. Now how can I, a professional footballer well known
come and join these guys sitting on bare floor and rickety chairs to throw
javelin and shotput? It was hard to consider. But with my wounded pride, I took
his advice and started training with him and other guys and was commended for
my catching up and improvements and this was three months after I was
discharged from the hospital.
A new athlete is born:
Four days
into my taken up the sports, I competed in the Spinal Cord Association of
Nigeria (SCAN) National championship and I place 4th in all my events (Javelin,
Discuss and Shotput). With that result a new athlete was born.
I was
selected to participate in the National Sports Festival that took place in my home
state, Imo State, but represented Lagos State and right there I unseated my
friend and national champion Patrick in the same sports festival, I won the gold
medal with a new national record to my name in the class f42 Men’s Javelin, but
felt bad to have won because I just took his glory away from him but was more
shocked when he told me, “I deserved it and it was meant to be, if not so, he
wouldn't have invited me to be part of the disabled athletes in the first
place.”
That
decision I thought was hard, happens to be the best decision I have ever made.
Thereafter,
it has been from one game to another. I joined the Nigerian disabled athletics
in late 1997 and by 1998, I represented Lagos State in the national sports festival,
winning a gold in Javelin and Silver in discus. I also went to the All African
Games in Johannesburg in 1999, winning silver in Javelin and silver in Discus.
In the year 2000, I won 2 silver medals in javelin and discuss in the African Championship
for disabled people in Tunisia.
In addition,
I was a finalist in Javelin event in the Sydney 2000 paralympic games, but would
have had a silver or possibly a gold if I had the enablement (artificial limb)
as confirmed by the Australian sports committee.
Footballer re-emerged:
My dream of
playing football re-emerged and I encouraged myself to keep the spirit alive;
if I can take strange sports and successfully make something out of them,
definitely another shot at football will not be a bad idea. So, I took the challenge
and owned it like my life depended on it and as we speak I have the pleasure to
say I currently play for Arsenal in the community amputee football team and playing
in the England Amputee Football Association (EAFA) national league.
I also
achieved a feat recently that has never been ventured by anyone on one leg and
crutches, a record setting and a bench mark for other amputees to follow and
possibly challenge.
I am very
passionate about helping and creating opportunities for Amputees and people
with disability in Nigeria. So, I take it personally to host an Amputee
football clinic and tournament in Nigeria to create awareness of the abilities
in the disabled persons in Nigeria.
Next frontier:
I am seeking
sponsorship from companies to organise this event and in return, I will use the
event to promote supporting brands further in Nigeria and make them one of companies
in Nigeria that actually cares about people with disability in Nigeria.
Mine is a
story of tears, sweats and blood, struggle, pain, believe, motivation, support,
love and determination. When
situation seem to alter your course in life, that is when you need to plot a new
one and be determined to work it out to be a reality.
Life will
not give you what you think you deserve, rather you have to take it and be sure
you have to fight to do so. Positivity has been the major key to my success
story apart from God's grace. I learnt in my journey so far that when life
throws you down, the only favour you owe yourself is to get back up and keep
moving.
There is
ability in disability.
*Banji Boye/GEE
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